Posted in DEATH

A poem about DEATH and HOPE

“What is dying?
I am standing in the sea shore,
a ship sails to the morning breeze
and starts for the ocean.
She is an object of beauty
and I stand watching her
till at last she fades
on the horizon
and someone at my side says,
‘She is gone.’
Gone! Where?
Gone from my sight–that is all.
She is just as large in the masts, hull and spars
as she was when I saw her,
and just as able to bear her load of living
freight to its destination.
The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me,
not in her;
and just at the moment when someone at my side says,
‘she is gone’
there are others who are watching her coming,
and others take up a glad shout–
‘There she comes!’ – and that is dying.”

 

The author of this poem is probably William Blake although some doubts remain as to the autorship of these words.

Nevertheless it is a poem which is often recited during a funeral…

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Posted in LOVE

A novel to overcome LOVE disappointment

 

“Eat, pray, love” Elizabeth Gilbert

(Riverhead books, 2007)

“Eat, pray, love” by Elizabeth Gilbert tells the autobiographical journey of a woman who offers herself a sabbatical year to recover from a stormy divorce followed by an unconvincing love affair. During this year, she will stay in three countries, Italy, India and Indonesia.

In Italy, she goes in search of the pleasure of living and finds the art of savouring beautiful things and tasting good food.

“In a world of disorder and disaster and fraud, sometimes only beauty can be trusted. Only artistic excellence is incorruptible. Pleasure cannot be bargained down. And sometimes the meal is the only currency that is real.”

In India she stays in an ashram where she sets out to seek devotion; she tries to free her thoughts from all the evils that paralyze her life in order to reach spiritual serenity. “We spend our time excavating the past, or scrutinizing the future, but we rarely rest in the present moment …… The present is the only place and the only time to find God.

Finally in Indonesia, she finds through love a kind of balance between earthly life and spiritual life. “The best thing to do in response to our incomprehensible and dangerous world is to train ourselves to maintain the balance” internally “whatever the madness that transpires here below. ” and

To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life

Superbly written, this novel puts words on emotions which might be difficult to say and opens the doors of hope to the person who believes that everything is finished after a love disappointment. I strongly recommend it to all women in the process of divorce or separation, but also to all the persons who are looking for inner peace.

Posted in LONELINESS

One hundred years of SOLITUDE

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“One Hundred Years of Solitude”

Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Published in Spanish in 1967, this voluminous Latin American novel is one of the masterpieces of universal literature.

The Colombian writer Gabriel Garcia Marquez tells the story of the Buendia family over seven generations in an imaginary village, Macondo. This one is described as being located in the Colombian Caribbean, a region well known by the author.

The Buendia family goes through events that marked the history of Colombia between the middle of the 19th century and the middle of the 20th century (civil wars, economic and social upheavals). However, the story of this family, as well as that of their village is accompanied by fantastic and imaginary phenomena that naturally inhabit everyday life: ghosts of the past, characters who are more than a hundred years old, magical inventions, unbelievable diseases, levitations , curse etc.

This singular and aesthetic approach to reality characterizes a new literary genre, the “magical realism” whose literary work of Gabriel Garcia Marquez has become one of the spearheads.

Theme of loneliness:

The Buendia family is struck by a curse that sentences it to one hundred years of loneliness … the propensity to solitude that characterizes the members of this family is obvious and the author keeps reminding us of it …

“Lost in the solitude of his immense power, he began to lose direction.” 

The cyclic and repetitive character that permeates every human story  (one of the most visible signs being the continual repetition of the same first names from generation to generation) conveys a feeling of irrevocability to human existence marked by solitute and by a propensity to always repeat the same mistakes.

Question is : Should I read this novel to heal of loneliness ???

I admit I had a little trouble getting into this story, even if the merits of writing and originality seem obvious to me. Initially, it seemed difficult to identify myself with the protagonists to finally focus on their fate. And then slowly, I have dropped my first resistance and I really let myself be caught by this original way of writing that guides the reader into the heart of the human comedy as Gabriel Garcia Marquez wanted to describe it to us.

So yes, this is a “feel good” novel, because it talks about the human being in its quintessence, that is to say in its loneliness. But yet, it seems that some hope exists : LOVE, and only love, can help oneself to escape from loneliness  …

“and both of them remained floating in an empty universe where the only everyday & eternal reality was love…”

 

Posted in BIBLIOCOACHING-BIBLIOTHERAPY

My first post on BIBLIOCOACHING

Nina Sankovitch Tolstoy and the Purple Chair - My Year of Magical Reading

This is my first post and I am proud to present you the novel of Nina Sankovitch

 “TOLSTOY and the PURPLE CHAIR – My Year of Magical Reading » (Harper, 2011)

Overcome by sadness after the death of her older sister, Nina Sankovitch decides to give herself the means to get by. She will take up a challenge that is particularly close to her heart and that should help her to mourn: for a year, she will read a book a day and will write about it on her blog every time.

In this eloquent and tender novel, the author evokes through her readings her relationship with her family, her past and of course her deceased sister.

The novels she reads appear as the mirror of her own emotions and make her think about the true meaning and becoming of life. The year of reading becomes for her a real year of therapy, the kind of therapy that I am fond of and that I also advise you.

If I had to put forward a novel to praise the bibliotherapy, it is undoubtedly this one that I would choose!

The quote of a journalist from The Oprach Magazine mentions on the cover of the novel “Anyone who has ever sought refuge in literature will identify with Tolystoy and the Purple Chair

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